In Memory of Pets

It has just gone 6 months since you passed away Bonnie, and while I am getting on with life, there is never a day that goes by without a tear coming to my eye while remembering my best buddy.

I always wanted a German Shepard, I guess it was watching all those Rin Tin Tin reruns as a kid. It wasn't until my last year in the army that life looked like settling down a little and I was in a position to fulfil my dreams. I went to a breeder who had three female puppies out of the litter and she gave me some advice. Go to the end of the path and call them and which ever one comes first is likely to be the most social. I did this twice and the same little girl was always in front. Just something about you made you my only choice. The breeder was a little sad that I choose you as deep down she was hopeing she could talk her partner into letting you join her home full time. I don't think this was a sales pitch as I found out in seconds what a special girl you were/are.

I got you in the car to take you home and it wasn't good enough to sit in the back. You got straight onto my lap and stayed there until we got to your new home. You bonded with the family, but sadly they have moved on leaving only you at my side for the next 6 years. We survived two large earthquakes, the destruction of our house and various up heavels, but you looked at me for comfort as I looked to you. When the 7.1 quake hit at 0430 hours, you looked up at me from the end of the bed as if to say "What the!?", but I just said, its okay girl, and we both went back to sleep.

When I got into a new relationship, it was important to me that you both got on. You clicked straight away and I knew it was going to work, even if the cats took a while to come around to their new sister. We had so many adventures and there was only a week in all those years that you were not with me on a daily basis. You were a big softie in a big dogs body but boy, were you protective of those you loved. You never bit but encouraged others to wait at the gate until I saw who was there. Even after that you followed strangers around the house with a watchful eye.

You had your moments like turning your nose up unless I got you the right brand of treats!!!!

Your box is next to my chair, close to your favourite sleeping place, at my feet. I do have another Shepard who is his own character, but as I placed on your memorial, you will always be my best buddy.

It gives me some comfort to think that we will meet again and even thou I am not religious, there are things that we can not understand. Until that time, I still like to think you are watching over me and I will continue to give you my unconditional love.

Missing you heaps

Dad

oh, your bonnie! what a lucky girl

so, so sorry for your loss, six months, still, not so easy when you're missing your best friend ..

here's to bonnie! and pray someday, every dog has its day

Thank you for sharing that beautiful story. I know the feeling I just lost Brandy my Spaniel of almost 16 years, he passed away on April 30th, 2012. I still miss him so much I guess it takes awhile because we were so close he was like my shadow. Tears come daily since the 30th of April, but I know he is watching over me, for God has a special place that He has prepared for His creatures when they leave us.

Sorry for your loss.

This is my Brandy who recently passed away.

beautiful brandy and lucky you, ray!

so sorry for your loss...

Thanks for the nice comments and support.

Brandy looks so content, and I am sorry to hear of his passing. They just seem happy knowing you are there and watching as you go about the day. Friends tease me as they see my car as a mobile dog kennel and know its me by the big dogs head hanging out the window enjoying the fresh air.

Just one of many happy memories I will always have that will see me smiling more and crying less, as the years go by.

Nigel

When I posted these words, it was two fold. 1st to remember my great mate and second, a funnel to channel my sadness. Since having post this, I do find myself smiling alot more at Bonnies memories and been less tearful.

Thanks for the opportunity, its helped me alot and it is comforting to know my views about our "mates" are shared by many.

Nigel

ah, nigel, that's how it goes for us that these lovely spirits leave behind! through the pain and the sadness, you begin to see a glimmer of the love and happy memories with the four leggeds, and the pain begins to transform ..

when my sadness would overtake me, I had only to remember my luck and good fortune for having had the opportunity to travel with such amazing friends and to remember that surely, a piece of them travels with me still

Hi all,

First off Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year to all those on this site. Thank you for all the kind words and sharing with me memories of my special friend. I take heart from sharing others experiences as well and does help, especially that first few months when life seems so empty without them been around.

I recently had some old tapes converted into DVD's and watched my mate in her youth jumping around the backyard and destroying the pop up sprinkler!!!! lol. That and playing tug of war with the yard broom was her favorite time of day, apart from when I came home of cause....lol

One year ago she went over the rainbow bridge, however remains just as much a part of my life now as then. Fewer tears and a lot more smiles........

Together always in heart.


Bonnie 20 Jan 2001 - 21 Dec 2011

What a beautiful girl!! Although it does get easier we never forget them and all their special ways. I lost my best buddie 4 1/2 years ago and not a day goes by with out thinking about him. Im glad you are able to smile in Bonnies memory. They are here to teach us unconditional love and fill our hearts with joy. Merry Christmas. I hope your holidays are happy.

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Our special friends will always remain in our hearts and we will never forget them. Patty